Technically it is tomorrow, April 9th, our anniversary, at least in the desert. How does a couple celebrate an anniversary separated by an ocean? You celebrate the best you can.
Last week I received a wooden photo frame with a quote engraved in it from my husband. Some women might be offended by a small token; it isn't elaborate, it isn't jewelry or flowers...it isn't showy or expensive, but for me, I know he took the time to look up the "traditional" gift for a 5 year anniversary (wood) and a special quote that he felt in his heart. Any man can buy flowers or jewelry but do they really come from the heart? Did he really have to do any research or put any thought into it? Perhaps, but I am not only content but satisfied and excited for my gift because I look forward to filling it with a special photo that will carry the gift on long after the flowers have died.
Alas, I on the other hand, have failed at the romantic anniversary gift. What do you send to someone camping out in the desert to celebrate your love? Five years is a milestone after all, yet the only thing I will be sending him is a link to a song that makes me think of the past five years and how he has changed them. I will send a care package of some goodies but overall, there will be no official "gift". It makes me sad to think that I didn't go all out but I am hopeful I can make up for it next year. Oh next year has some major making up to do!
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